Most guys are NOT gentleman ESPECIALLY the good looking one. "Harap muka ajer hensem, tapi perangai buruk benor. Lagi teruk dari beruk." (Translation: ... Good looking people are not nescessarily have good manners....)
It's very hard to see some people who are willing to help you carry your stuff or perhaps let you get into the elevator first. Most guys just rush in, "pushing" the others aside minding their own fucking business. These people are just being nice if they want to show off to get girls attention. As for the others, they just don't give a damn.
There was once where I was waiting for the train to come at the Imbi monorail station and there were alot of people. I missed freaking 5 trains cause I was pushed out by the fucking impolite male species who was being rather fucking selfish. It was hard for most female, especially the elder women to get into the train. Thank god the monorail station guard helped me to get into the train or else I would have to wait for another one to come and I was running late for a meeting.